My friend (lets call him G) is usually really friendly and nice and polite and blah blah blah. He`s also really jokey all the time, and really playful.
G also happens to like me.
An whenever we text he always asks me my list (in case you dont know what his is, its your top three "would date" people in your class/ estate, whatever. its the stupidest thing in the world, but its usually how you get to know who someone likes). So one day he got annoyed at me for never telling him because i know his and he thinks its unfair. So i told him, and he happens to be first on that list. I dont like him btw, and i told him this in a reaaaaaally nice way.
This was about 2 months ago^.
G hasnt been texting me much. He used to answer in the minimal space of a day, now it takes a week. He also exited all of the Whatsapp groups he`s in, and when i asked why, he says its because "no one talks in them anyway". which isnt true because everyone texts in those groups almost everyday.
He also hasnt been joking around lately. He became really matter-of-fact, and cold, and bitterly anti-social. I asked why he hasnt been his normal self, he said it was because of his behaviour grades.
I know thats a lie because he is just as loud as he was before. He just isnt loud with courageous comebacks to stand up for his friends, smart jokes and laughter. He is loud with snarky mean comments and useless questions.
I dont know whats wrong with him.
I feel really bad but i dont know how to ask him whats up, and if i do i know he will lie anyway.
Do you think i should ignore him? or is it something to do with me, because all my friends say hes like this because hes heartbroken, but nothing has changed in the last two months???
I dont really understand.
And i want to help. He (used to be) one of my best friends, I think i was even starting to like him in that way.
Should i ask him whats up? And if so, how??
And whats your opinion on the heart broken thing?
Thanks for reading...