I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years and we are madly in love, but now she's staying in the university all week and sometimes more than a week, I can't go to see her every week neither because is a little far from me and i have to do stuff too, and she was honest with me because she told me she wanna be with me but at the same time she wanna go to party and have sex with other, have new experiences, this is really weird for me but im in love with her so i dont know what to do.?
My girlfriend wants to have sex with others!?
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- 3+ months ago by austin161
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- university, love, sex, week, girlfriend, year, years
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just be brave, tell her u do not want her to be in this way, ask her stop looking for other man if she really love u. do not continue with her anymore, if she refuse to hear ur advice. she is getting far away from your love, something is happening. so pray for her, Jesus God loves you. God is love, learn to love in the bible, do not mess up with bad girls.they will destroy your good future and family values.
Read my response carefully:
First off she's right to want to experience college she did pay for it after all... She's probably confused and lonely. But that's okay. I'm gonna give you a tip someone should have given me when I was in your position. STAY WITH HER. Ask her if she'd be okay with you joining in on your visits. You can easily swap partners for a little fun while keeping the love of your life. You deserve fun too! If love is as strong as you say you're is then you'll be fine and it'll be a great experience for you both. But if love is not in the air it'll open you up to a new experience AND help you find out if she's the one.
Because if you can't be open and honest about everything with some trust thrown in.... It'll never work anyways bud. Hope this helped.
Is she the type of girl that can separate sex and intimacy?
You need to discuss this with her, if she can and tells you she wants to be with you, then you need to have some rules, IE. safe sex, no repeats etc. You're entitled to that.
Don't play the "what's good for you is good for me" game.
I'm a female with a much older boyfriend, we've been together a few years and he suggested that I expand my experience. Rules like I mentioned above. Some of my girl friends are envious but it works well because I get to go out with them clubbing which is something that doesn't interest him. I love him even more and we have a great relationship.