While she says "love making" is great with me she really wants "just sex" which to me is a lot less meaningful version of the same act. I'm more of a lover than one of those guys that would just f*** some one just because they can. I do want to make sure she is satisfied though so she doesn't feel that she needs to find some one else on the side. My question is: does anyone have tips on how I can give her what she wants instead of just the same, same old? I know she likes to be tied and a bit of force... and I have tried every thing she has said she likes.. I'm running out of fresh ideas.
My girlfriend says she wants "just sex" instead of "making love" for a change?
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- 3+ months ago by Izaya_Ala...
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There is a difference between 'making love' and 'just sex'. Making love is getting close and making a connection on a deep level, and getting closer to a person that you love with your whole heart and making it meaningful to each other as well as to your whole life. Just sex, actually is to get your fustrations out and just to get your rocks off to RELAX. There is sexual build of things in a persons male and female alike that need to release(which is a release of endorphins and adrenaline) which the body needs from time to time. Especially when a person is really turned on and really excited. They don't need love making to make the release yes it can be good but not needed all they need it for is so they don't get mad and don't cause problems with their life, it doesn't matter how you do it or where, just do it that is what she is saying. SHe needs to relax and that is the what she needs. She has already connected to/with you. Now she needs to just relax with you.
Tie her up and fuck her senselessly, I'm joking. Try some role play so you express how you feel she is acting towards you if that makes any sense at all, I don't mean sex like just talk to her and act towards her how she acts towards you and tell her to do the same thing, you could actually learn a lot about each other doing something like this and it is also a great way to show her how you feel about how she treats you and what she says in a relaxed way rather than it seeming like a character assassination.
