Me and my girlfriend were watching a movie and she commented about an actor, saying "aw he looks cute." out of nowhere. I couldn't help but have my feelings hurt when she said that because it made me think that she wasn't thinking about my feelings and that what she said would make me jealous. Now I'm pretty sure she wouldn't leave me for someone else 'just cause', but it hurts me to think she would comment on a guy's handsomeness in front of her own boyfriend. I am a very sensitive guy but defidently care about my girlfriend's feelings and show her alot of my love for her. I personally would never say in front of her about how cute a girl looks randomly because I know it may make her jealous and its rude. Alot of you if not most may retort at me that I'm "overthinking" or "overreacting" but to me it's little things like that, that may tell me what kind of a person someone is and really gets to me. I'm afraid to tell her how I feel about it because I have talked to her before about things that hurt me b4 that she did but she would tell me to not over think things and she would tell me she is dissapointed with me and say "you don't feel my love?" and say she kisses me and holds me alot. Although she does show me alot of the times that she loves and cares for me, she has done a lot to support me in love, but then there are these little things that hurts me. In the end I feel to be the one who is the most attached in this relationship. I don't know what to do. I have always wanted a girl who would be very attached to me as I would be to her and loving. Can anyone help me please? I need some advice?
My girlfriend says "he's cute"?
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- 3+ months ago by Goldenhaw...
- Topics:
- cute, watching, girlfriend, movie, actor, movies
Responses (1)
I'm just like you, although I'm a girl. If I had a boyfriend, and this happened, I would feel extremely heart broken. Sure, it's just a character in a movie, but still! She was probably just thinking out loud, and didn't mean to hurt you.. But on the other hand, she might have been trying to make you jealous. I've known girls and guys that would make certain remarks so their significant other would be jealous, and try harder to be someone the other person desired. But anyways, if you really feel jealous about this and want to tell her, go for it. She shouldn't have said it, if she knows you well enough to know you have a faint heart. And having a faint heart isn't bad!!! I know exactly how it feels. (: Goodluck, and hope it all goes well.