I am young, i am only 16, but please don't think its not actually love. She is the one, i have found true love. She has become my happiness and i want to be with her forever. Our relationship is perfect ive become a better me. I get really emotional over her leaving and what will happen when she is gone and i don't know what to do. I know i can travel by flight now because i'm 16, so i can visit her. There's a possibility she might come back in a few years and i'm willing to wait. What should i do? I'm talking about what i should do regarding our relationship. When she leaves i will tell her i can and will wait and will give her leaving gifts. I want to know what is best for both of us.
My girlfriend is leaving the UK to live in Hungary, what should happen to our relationship?
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- 3+ months ago by shanthosh26
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- young, love, found, girlfriend, hungary, leaving, relationship, uk, relationships, true love
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Yes, people who you love in your life leave you. This can be solved easily. One of the things if I was you is tell her what you feel for her. If she doesn't like it or she feels the same then I recommend get every single contact to tell her what happens and what goes in your life. I would recommend the e-mail style. So you don't over use your data. If she say she doesn't feel the same way or doesn't reply, and not feel emotional, still get her contact. You never know while she is away she have already a boyfriend. Making things awkward when your gonna say that you love her. Sometimes making a step is the hardest. I too have troubles on asking a girl or even talking near her.
If this relationship goes further then ask more people who have gone through it. I too haven't gone through this for I'm still young. Let's say I'm one of those guys who are talented whether it's a wise decision to do something. It's your choice to tell her that you lover her or not. BUT I would always start e-mail because through e-mail you can only see it once a day, you reply once a day, and once a day, she gets to know you more. DONT RUSH LOVE!
Good luck bro! My best wishes for you for making your own choices, and I'm glad you asked for help.
You have no choice but to go with the flow and see what happens. I get you have strong feelings for her, and this separation is a tough situation to be in, young or old, but you have no control over it. Now would be a good time to listen to her side of this, and see what kind of plan you come up with to stay in touch with each other. This move is probably as stressful for her as it is on you, and since neither of you has any control over it, don't make it harder than it has to be, so be a good listener and support each other through it.
It's an emotional time, but I guess you will have to be cool, and get through it.
As much as I hate to say it. I'd say it would be best to call yourselves friends if you love her keep in touch be her nostalgia her "home" that way nothing could happen to cause a break up that is unpleasant. I don't think its not love because you're 16 but remember you're 16 ,I'm only 24 and when I look back at the 16 year old version of me I can clearly see that I didn't know anythibg about myself I did at the time but she is the furthest thing from the me today and hell I still have no idea who I am and may not ever know my point is you are still going through a lot of devolopmental stages in your brain and she is too and its great you are a better you and your gf has helped influence positivity in your life but you're better because you chose to be no one can make you better so I'd say end the relationship on that gf/ bf level but stay best friends and stay positive she is going to grow and you are going to grow this is opportunity to take time to develop the best you-you can be . then when/if she comes back and the love remains after you two have had time to know yourselves a bit better you will be more in touch with your love for eachother and you'll know forever that its solid its good to have time away like that anyhow.and if you don't think she will come back to you then in the long run it probably won't work out. anyway I don't know if i just conveyed quite the point I was trying to but I hope it'll help you while you think of what you are gunna do just whatever happeens dont forget who you are as an individual and how great you are don't let it bring you down, ruin the way you live, or see yourself or others i know that what youre going through is pretty rough and life doesn't seem to get any less confusing ( I think for anyone) . (Hug) I wish you the best of happiness and good luck . :)
we both said we wont be able to move on. We both want to be together forever. We are both willing to wait.