We have been into distance relationship for two years now I never make love to her, but I never ask for sex but I need it, what will I do, we do see each other when ever we want.
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That is funny . If you are very charming &and have a lot experience. You can say it straight to her. If she do not want to do that. You can stop asking about that. And then,
If you are clever enough ,do something romantic & make girls think about "sex". Then act like the movies shows ,that will happen as you wish .good luck.
you should hold down for a while just start off slow there are some basic steps befor you can get to the sex part start off just by holding hands and going out then after a few months of that if she doesnt step it up then you swing in for the a good kiss. slowly she will kiss you more and the more you kiss it will stimulate her and eventually she will want it to but dont push her into or she will do it but she wont really want to
good luck
i appreciate all you told me, but i have something to comment about i have tried to talk about it over the phone with her when we normally have phone chats and free midnight calls i say romantic things to her atimes end telling her sexual fantasies which she likes, i know she like it from the we she listen to me without ultaring a word when i think she doesnt like it, i will try to stop but she insist i continue my fantasies she listen good she is a good listner, but everytime i try to hit the point but i hit the point indirectly she will refuse to that and say she never done it before and she will end up saying no no no, she is scorpio and atimes when scorpios says no its normally yes they mean, help me i need to be clear about this i dont want to end up our lovely relation just for sex i dont mind to masturbate all i care is her love for me but what is love if you cant touch kiss hug or make love with your partner , wow this sucks, i never talk to any other girl because of her.
just because she doesnt want to have sex doesnt mean shes cheating on you and dont check her phone cause then if she catches you your in trouble and she wont trust you anymore.
just because she doesnt want to have sex doesnt mean shes cheating on you and dont check her phone cause then if she catches you your in trouble and she wont trust you anymore.
just because she doesnt want to have sex doesnt mean shes cheating on you and dont check her phone cause then if she catches you your in trouble and she wont trust you anymore.
Just a small interjection at this point...
I appreciate that you/her/you both believe in astrological zodiac thingeys, which is fine, and I'm not going to be in-your-face about it, but when it comes to sex, you don't want to trust someone's birthday sign as their ultimatum. If she's saying "No no no no," then the chances are she actually means 'No.' Scorpio or otherwise.
no comment..........
for me the virginity is the gift of God to marriage, not a lover... is it the most important as a girl to give her virginity to his husband after the wedding...
everyone has their own opinion
It never hurts to ask.
But if she's not meeting your needs, you might have the urge to cheat.
And nothing ends well when a spouse cheats.
If she says no, then embrace her answer.
You have to respect her decision, and take into consideration that maybe she's not ready yet.
hey man that's ridiculous, you need to be a little more authoritative, take some action
you can ask when you two are in the middle of some crazy close to love making but if you ask outside of it, well that could be a little awkward. she probably doesn't like planning things out like that, just sweep her off her feet and well, fool around until she feels comfortable enough to have sex and do it
and now reading ur response, just come out and tell her, dont even start the fantisies, get strait to the point, then u can explain! :D good luck!
You say that you two can see eachother whenever you want, do you guys ever do other intimate things such as private walks, and holding hands? Is she intimate with you in other ways? If she is a virgin, that definatly means all of this stuff is new to her so you need to take it slow.. I understand the guy point of view that you have, because sometimes waiting for sex really agrivates men.. You need to be understanding, and you need to be honest and open with her.When she tells you no, you need to tell her how it makes you feel.. You should ask her if she is even interested in taking the relationship to the next level, and if you can tell that she isnt, you need to make up your mind if you want to stay or move on.
you should ask her what she want to do and if she say she want have sex just go slow dont go fast and if it dont go in dont try to make it casue it will hurt her and thats the last thing you want to happen then you are going to be hard and she aint going to want to do anything cause she going to say it hurt to bad lol
How would handle it, would you have sex with him if you thought it would for a little while.
hey
am turnin 22 this week and am a virgin. what i know is that its quite hard for a gal to get to 22yrs and be a virgin if she aint into some committment like no sex before marriage or if she has fears or something.try asking but dont be crude,you dont want her to think all you want her for is sex so ya...ask but then make her feel like evenwithout the sex you would love her.yeah yeah my boyfrend also asked me sometime and i didnt give it to him and i explained why and now we kiss and lie in each others arms and yeah it kills him sometimes because you know male instincts but he respects me and has chosen to wait with me,lets see how it goes...try talking but dont put sex first
Wel my ex n I didn't have sex till 9 month into relationship. So just wait
Perfect advice!
song whatever your name is, you are lucky she even had sex with you because that was a douche comment. Keeping your virginity till marriage should be respected and admired. It shows perseverance and a true desire to satisfy one's inner goals and build on a relationship with not only a person but god.
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ok so you have made the hints. the next part is to see her and accually cuddle with her just like start to watch a movie. be cheezy girls like that do the hole stretch thing if she rejects it then you just gota wait cause she isnt ready but if she giggles and does nothing or giggles and rejects you then yes she does want to she just isnt ready right then. sometimes to move things along girls are scaired and you have to start it off by showing her that it is a good thing and steal a kiss but not like a peck that wont work it has to be a good kiss. if none of this works then from my expirence there are only 2 things that could be wrong... 1. she is cheating on you try to check her fone it may be via sexting. 2. she loves you but isnt ready to show you that much cause she i scaired that
A. you will get caught having sex
B. it will hurt
C. what if she gets pregno which would raise more questions
P.S. never let her forget that you love her no matter what and will never leaver her and dont make the relationship all about sex. a relationship without touching and kissing and stuff is stil a relationship its just not a close of a relationship