My friend whos a girl (im a guy) keeps being mean to me. one day during the summer i had m&ms in a mic n ics container and she asked for some candy, i said sure! so after she took some candy she started being judgemental and saying "hey i wanted mic n ics!!! wat the h***!!!! blah blah blah!!!!!!" and she gives me frequent dirty looks whenever i go to her and her/my friends. she also hazes me sometimes. Ex.// (i come over to her group) Get out of here!! ummmm.....what are you doing here..? etc. she gives the same treatment to my same guy friend and he and i are sick of it. what do i do to handle it? and am i overreacting? also, we're entering high school, and is it that saying that people change in high school getting put into place? idk. Please help!!! :(
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You should ask her if she has a problem with you, try to talk it out. If she refuses to talk about it and continues to be mean then she probably isn't a very good friend. Maybe ignore her and hang out with your real friends, or try to make some new ones. Some people aren't worth wasting your time over.
i dont thinks so, because she is mean to a lot of guys but flirts with 1 a lot and it gets sooooo annoying!!
get some new freinds. real friends will be caring, will listen to u and have fun with u. tell ur guy frined that just ignore her. she either a) likes you b) is jealous c) just being mean and/or insecure. people who be mean to people just don't like themselves or have something going on so they put there anger out on someone else
thank you! i think its just c) thats happening
If i am in your shoes than i could have dropped my pant in front of her and shows her the her's right place....
I can understand the all humiliations which you are facing or faced with all what ever you claimed.....
You must implement the rule no. 1 of life... which is
If some one throws bricks on you than you must throw stone on them...........
thanks....
Coming from a girl.. she likes you! I used to be rude to my crushes all the time.. I don't know why but it seems like all girls do it. Usually, when girls are rude to boys, it means that they like them, but they are afraid that they might show it so they try to hide it by being rude so you think the opposite. Ask her if she has any feelings for you. She might lie and say no, because girls (and boys) do that too if they don't want to be embarrassed, and if you by any chance like her, just tell her that if she likes you, you like her back. Take the chance. I would. But if you don't like her, tell her that you've noticed that she hasn't been very nice to you lately and just ask her why. DON'T BE RUDE ABOUT IT!! Be nice and ask her politely so she doesn't be more to you.
Hope this helped :)
thanks!