The fact is that he does not have any mom and dad. His bro is a very passive guy and does not interfere with any of his affairs. Another thing is that this friend of mine is a patient of OCD obsessive compulsive disorder and he is doing this because he is suffering from it and he does not take any medicines for his disease. So his obsession is to not to give me the table tennis bat. Its not that costly but that bat is mine and I wanted it back in any condition.