... and left it at home. The people where she works say she has told them she is no longer engaged.

The ring was one she picked out. She agreed to marry me last year. Then she said we needed to wait until Spring, When Spring came she said we didn't know each other long enough and we needed to wait longer. She said she needed to know me a year and that point is nearing but she doesn't want to set a date. She also said she is not happy with the ring she picked out and wants a new one.

She refuses to friend me on facebook. Recently she deleted her fb account rather than add me. She has since promised to add me and these are just empty words. It has never happened.

Many times she leaves for the weekend without advance notice. She claims she is doing something with her mother but I found out her mother didn't know who I was. I haven't officially met any of her family.

The first time she left for a weekend was when she promised to take me out of town for my birthday. She then cancelled and went somewhere supposedly with her mother.

She admitted that with her last boyfriend although she loved him she dated other men while she was seeing him.

I pay her bills because we are engaged to be married. I have been told she is using me and see this might be the case. Is there any hope for this situation. Yes, we have talked. She has promised to introduce me to her family but any time she takes a break it is a family related event. Promises of meeting her family have come and gone