We want a small wedding but still would like our families there, the issue is we currently live in my home State But IN About A Year will be moving to his home state so we would prefer to do it here. Now a lot of his family won't be able to make it out which I don't feel is fair for me to have my family there if his family can't be. Yet we still don't just want to alope. What's the best option for us? Any opinions, suggestions?