I have managing conservatorship. My ex doesnt pay child support(even though he is court ordered to pay). He hasnt cared for these kids at all. He was abusive to me(only me but in front of the kids) when i was with him.. my fiancee is amazing with my kids and a great father (he has 2 of his own). But we were kind of wondering if my ex should know we are getting married.
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If he doesn't care about your kids then why would he care about you. You shouldn't tell him. If he hasn't had the time to contact you why should you contact him. Who knows he might be married and hasn't told you. When you guys broke up you decided to go on different paths. This marriage isn't part of his path , it's part of yours. The ex doesn't seem kind. He don't deserve you, your fiancée does.
As he has been told to pay child support by the court and he hasn't payed then it is a matter of getting full custody because now you have more of advantage, you were right when you said its easier. The only matter he should care about is your kids. At the end of the day he's just a not caring ex so if you tell him your getting married he probably won't care. If he did care, you wouldn't be on question.com would you?
Yea. Thats exactly what I was thinking. We just thought it would be a courtesy. And because we are moving that if i go back to court and try to get full custody. I could tell them that I tried to reach out and he hasnt done anything... i guess try to make it easier.