... that every time we try make it work, it never does... we can go months without talking but when we see each other again, we instantly pick up where we left off.. I don't know what to do.. I want to be with him but I'm scared :( I cant keep being on a rollercoaster... but id do anything to be with him. What can we do to stay happy? I really need advice
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i had the same problem when i was in england. i moved away to canada after being on a rollercoster of i love you's. these things happen sometimes .. what you need is a real man... someone who will put this guy to shame sad thing is this guy and you do have feeling for eachother but you have to put your foot down now so that you can be happy! at first you probably wont.. you'll be very upset and feeling guilty but after a while trust me... you couldn't be happier... you dont have to ever tell him that you cant be together or even bring up the subject. just slowly stop talking to him like you did before.. then when you talk again make sure your only acting friendly and not flirty.. soon you guys would of drifted into just friendship and you will find the right man for you girl... you just cant have your heart set on this guy because somewhere their is a man who will fight for your heart no matter what..but he cant get to it if it already belongs to the wrong guy.. he will just move on :/ so trust me.. make the change and be the strong person every girl wishes she was like!
I've tried that... the last time we were together and it was really bad.. I packed up and left when he was at work... I met someone after him and we dated but it always felt wrong... it felt like my heart wasn't in it and that I just had to be with my ex... so I broke it off with the new guy who was worse than my ex... I will always love my ex... but no matter how much we try... we both know it wont work no matter how much we try..
see that's your problems you need to find someone BETTER than your ex
Yeah maybe.. we both want it to work... but as we both have said it just doesn't work between us when we are in a relationship... I'm moving states next week as I have a new job but he doesn't want me to go... but we cant be together... its such a confusing situation