... things didn't work out between us. After we broke up, I moved to a different city about an hour and a half away so I could go to school, since the colleges out here are much better than the ones in my previous city. I've been out here for about three months now, and my ex is still not over the break up and is constantly trying to find ways into forcing me back home. The problem now is that she's claiming to "not be in the right state of mind" to be taking care of a child, and is demanding I drop my classes (which will make it very difficult to continue school in the future) and everything else to move back and take care of our kid all the time, all by myself. Of course I want to be there for my daughter, and I am there for her right now financially and visit often, but school is also important, especially if I want to provide for my daughter better in the future. I feel this is just another one of my ex's tricks to get me back home. I want to simply tell her "no", that I don't want to drop out of school, and that I will come back up and take care of my daughter more often if that's what she needs. But what I am wondering is if she can somehow legally force me to come back? Can I get into any legal trouble at all? I know my daughter is my responsibility, but she is also my ex's as well. Can anyone give me any sort of advice at all? Do you think I'm being immature or selfish in any way?