my crush is planning on asking me out, but he had a REALLY dark past with his last girlfriend. his last girlfriend died of leukemia 2 years ago, he claims hes over it but thats not something thats easy to get over because they had been dating for two years. Apparently he likes me and hes going to ask me out and i really like him and i want to say yes, but i feel like im forcing him to get over her? i dont want him to just forget her, its not an easy thing to get over, i know what its like to lose someone close to you and its not pleasant. What should i do? ive liked him for a long time.. i dont want to try to replace her though, what if hes still not over her? hellllp pleaaase :(