Basically i messaged her and let her know that i was working sat and sun but i had no problem with going round and staying over like originally planned. Now i couldnt get there until 7pm because of travel time and when i finish work, she said that it was too late to go out for a meal then because its too late for her daughter. Ever time me and my partner have been there her child hasnt gone to sleep/bed until 10:30... (She is 4) and also they have never served dinner any earlier than 8:30. I said dont worry if its too much hassle i just wont come. She then said, "sorry you cant make it" when i could it just wasnt suitable for her.. So she then texts my partner and says they will order a takeaway saturday night when he goes round....