His dad recently kicked him out and now won't let him see his brother he loves his brother to bits but his dad is really stubborn can anyone give advice on what to do?
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He has to explain to his parents that his problems with them not related to his young brother ,,, he have to do something ,,, try to convince them that his brother will still his brother what ever they did .. don't make the problem between us make him hate me like that u are committing a sin against us ..... all of this with brain voice and very quite cause as u said his father stubborn and the best thing is to try to fix his problem parents ... parents never hate their children never !!!
Sometimes there just is no reasoning with a stubborn person. The boyfriends gotta do what he's gotta do.. Either secretly see his bro or play the waiting game. Whatever reason he got kicked out for, he needs to deal with that first. Seeing his brother doesn't seem that important, his brother is safe and healthy at home where he should be in the first place.
We talked about him secretly seeing him when he goes to his mums but she would probably tell his dad the problem with waiting and secretly seeing him is that he's only two years old so either its a long wait or he'll always be with someone and I know how his dad talks about people even the kids mum so I'm pretty sure by the time he can see him he'll have a completely different idea of who he is I really don't want that
So his only choice is to address whatever problem it is he has with his dad. He needs to be an adult, go over to the house, sit and talk it out. ( I'm not sure what the problem is soo can't speak on that) but that's the only way. I know it feels easier to find a way around the confrontation but that's the only way.
Yeah I think that's be best but as I said his dad is very stubborn and scares both of to be honest but I'll try and convince my boyfriend that that's the thing to do
I've said that its their problem and it's not fair to stop them seeing eachother but he seems to just want to make my boyfriends life horrible. His brother is two and he looked after him like a dad for 7 months and I'm pretty sure it's got to mess both of them up having such and important person taken out of their life