My boyfriend won't have sex with me anymore. Why?

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we used to do it 3x a day. now only once a month, i dont know what happened. we were doing it like rabbits and then i asked for it one day and i got a resounding 'no'. i know he isnt cheating on me (i check his phone regualy, sshhh lol). i think he loves me still. but idl what has happened? ive tried wearing sexy corset sex clothes, paint on chocolate and i even read 50 Shades of Grey.... aanndd nothing. Is this a normal thing for men? he's 21 and im 20. 
any advise?

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make it 4x a day

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Yes in some cases this is normal. He probably just wants a break for a while. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

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with the man, need 24-36h to refill, so if you do it so much, the man will be exhausted and he will be weakness. so i think he needs a break here
the other way, sex like when you eat some delicious food. if you eat too much, you'll feel it's not delicious any more. So just eat a little, you'll feel it good. :)

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He probably thinks its boring. You could go to a park with him, enjoy kissing, and then he will start having sex with you again.

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he may be used to it

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tell u the truth u dont need to be havin sex anyway.

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Give it a break. if you do it to often, he's gonna get tired, and soon bored.
Tease him or dirty talk him If you really want tim to do something, i guess. But maybe he's like my own, and not as sexual as us :P

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Gross

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Because u a bitch

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Maybe he doesn't want a kid

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Just give him love rather than sex like.............like go party with him go shopping go to the theater cause sex does get boring and it becomes overwhelm so take care ease down a bit but show you still love him!!!

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maybe he thinks that all you want is sex. show him you love him. :)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me anymore. Why?

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