I have never thought I would face this kind of problem.
It's totally unacceptable, nonsense, and sick.
What I can understand is the past. Only the past.
whoever you were, whatever you did, I can understand it.
But the past should have been ended up in the past. If it still continues,
do not say it only happened in the past. We call that present continue.
Do you know why people can easily forget their partner's ex?
That is because either of them do not contact their ex anymore.
They might kissed or had sex when they were together but it's all forgiven. why? because since they do not contact to their ex, your partner definitely think
there wouldn't be no more chance you kiss or have sex with ex while
they are meeting somebody else.
What I can see is not your friendship. I see you still holding the opportunity that you might have sex with her again when you are back to single.
No more feeling from her but friendship? stop making bullshit.
You were the one who told me man and woman can not be friend, and
you guys didnt even go out, but kissed each other and maybe more.
That is why I worry about because you did something with her when
you didnt even have feeling for her.
That sound you can do that with her again because
you STILL don't have feeling for her and guess what?
texting to each other, asking miss me or not, sending photo of yourself and
asking how do you think …
If I am a kind of girl who force you to not to contact to any other girls,
I wouldn't forgive your worst past.
I forgave you what you did when you were young, made someone pregnant. Why? because what you behave didn't annoy me and made me UNDERSTAND your PAST. But this one I can not understand. That is not the manner for your present partner. You should realise this fact.
...That is how i wanna tell him. He has been contacting with his BESTFRIEND what he called, but I dont think he really does think her that way. What should I do.