my boyfriend of 3 months and i went out to a pub with some friends. I've never really been out with him before. We all had a few drinks, and were a bit groggy, so i'm really not sure what to think of this, but a girl was hitting on him, and he let her kiss him. the kiss maybe lasted for 30 seconds, and he apologized to me right after. He's never kissed ANYONE before dating me because he was uncomfortable with his sexuality and nobody knew he was gay. He said he can't go forever having only kissed one person, and a girl is better than a guy. He told me he loved me after that, and he's never told me that before either. I'm not really sure if i should be worried about the action or not. He seemed sincere in his apology, and other than that he's acted pretty normal. what do you think?
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This is quite weird case. Gay kissed by a girl. At least I would be a bit upset if I were in your shoes. But it's hard to say if there's really a reason to be angry or not. I think that's why you should forgive him this time, but be careful. It might be that he isn't ready to be in a relationship with you or anyone at the moment.
stop being a dick,he was drunk.
im sayin
its a boy
My boyfriend is an older adult than I am. I'm almost 31 and he's 61. One night, not too long ago, he didn't tell me that a woman would be over so late. My boyfriend and I were kissing and fondling each other, when there was a kock on the door. He wanted me to answer so bad. And I wished that I hadn't. Because something about it, just didn't feel right. After I let him in, I saw the way she kept complaining me. And told me that she loved hugging her new friend. I just knew her from my boyfriend's work at Walmart. Then next thing I knew, she woke him up. And I found him naked with her. And he started french kissing her infront of me. After I asked her what she was doing, she insulted me and started trying to include me in on the threesome. I got angry and sulked. She then slapped him hard and hard and left. She said that she'd be back for me. I confronted my bf after that. And he just didn't want at all, to admit that it was more than an accident. Later, she told me after she was done kissing him and trying to fondle him, that she wanted to move in. And me move out. Kevin, is always trying to get me to cheat. Then he gets mad, if I do. And he's best friend is all over me. But when I get mad, he tells me that I'm wrong and a bitch. And he says that nobody can have me. Then, he takes the phone that we share away. Then he gets all nice again. What should I do?
He sounds fked up
My boyfriend is an older adult than I am. I'm almost 31 and he's 61. One night, not too long ago, he didn't tell me that a woman would be over so late. My boyfriend and I were kissing and fondling each other, when there was a kock on the door. He wanted me to answer so bad. And I wished that I hadn't. Because something about it, just didn't feel right. After I let her in, I saw the way she kept complementing me. And told me that she loved hugging her new friend. I just knew her from my boyfriend's work at Walmart. Then next thing I knew, she woke him up. And I found him naked with her. And he started french kissing her infront of me. After I asked her what she was doing, she insulted me and started trying to include me in on the threesome. I got angry and sulked. She then slapped him hard and hard and left. She said that she'd be back for me. I confronted my bf after that. And he just didn't want at all, to admit that it was more than an accident. Later, she told me after she was done kissing him and trying to fondle him, that she wanted to move in. And me move out. Kevin, is always trying to get me to cheat. Then he gets mad, if I do. And he's best friend is all over me. But when I get mad, he tells me that I'm wrong and a bitch. And he says that nobody can have me. Then, he takes the phone that we share away. Then he gets all nice again. What should I do?
yeah people do weird stuff when their drunk, but if he does it again you should consider breaking up with him and definitely if he does it while he's sober.