Hello everyone. I'm 22 with 2 kids. I have my own place & job,very independent. I just recently just gotten out of a terrible mentally,physically,emotionally abusive relationship of 2years with a man that was 20years older than I was. I knew it wasn't no good for me,I tried n tried to get of that relationship but it was hard, but I finally did it. After recovering from all of that. Months later, I met this nice guy I've grown to really love & like. We been dating for 3months now. He's 24. No kids. He makes me happy in so many different ways. He's shown me he's wants me for me & I do the same in return. He's been struggling finding a job near by distance, Now it's so hard for me because he has found a job but it's 3hours away. I know he needs work but I'm starting to feel like we're going to grow apart because the job may require him to live there. I can't just up in move with him because I have small kids and job that I've been on for years, it'll be hard for me to let that all go if he was to move away. I really don't know what to do. My kid really love him as father,& I really seen a future, we been talking about marriage and all one day. I really love this guy, he's the first man that ever made me feel so happy with,even from just hearing his voice,and I don't want to lose him due to distance. Can someone give me some advice please?? I'm stressing so bAd