Me & my boyfriend have been together for 2 years, I am quite moody when I want to be but when we argue, sometimes I try to get my self out of a situation by going home (if I'm round his) to try to prevent arguing I know I shouldn't run away from my problems but sometimes by me going away and calming down thinking about the situation is best for me, as I'm quite a hot headed person. When I don't go home or claim I won't to go home, or argue with him he gets violent & verbally violent I.e e has punched me in my shin, slapped my across the face spat at me, pulled my hair poured drink over me, covered my mouth to prevent me from shouting I say I'm leaving him he then sobs very badly, saying he's sorry so many times I'm an idiot for letting him do it to me, but I feel sorry for him then he hurts himself I then think to myself maybe it's his anger he doesn't mean it, but he carries on doing it after he says he will change? I'm in no means a saint I say nasty things & get moody but never will I touch someone in anger. Does he mean it or am I in a abusive relationship and I need to get out? I need some serious advice. I suffer from anxiety also wich doesn't make this any better for me. Please someone could help me. X
My boyfriend hits me multiple times?
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- 3+ months ago by Georgiani...
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- moody, multiple, boyfriend, year, together, relationship, years, self, time
Answers (2)
GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP! There is NO excuse for ANYONE to hit another person. LEAVE HIM! There are programs that will help you get out of that relationship. Every girl is moody that is no excuse. If you feel like you are to moody talk to your doctor you may have a chemical unbalance. but LEAVE HIM there is no reason he should hit you or verbally abuse you.
I have anxiety disorder, so I get why you'd feel anxious over a situation like this. Get out of the relationship. Honey, someone who loves you would NEVER put there hands on you. No matter what the reason for it is, it is NEVER okay for anyone to lay their hands on you that way. Don't keep giving him chances, and when you say you're going to leave him, do it. No man, or woman will ever take you seriously if you don't stick to the words that you are saying. Leave him, be happy. He could SERIOUSLY HURT YOU one day. I promise you, nothing good will come out of that relationship, even if he says sorry, obviously he doesn't mean it. Don't talk to him after you break up, don't give in. If you ever want to me happy, you will do this.
Please take care, be smart, start safe.
And by the way, I've been In a great relationship for over a year now. I walked away from boys like that- yes they are boys if they do things like that, they are not men if they lay their hands on you. And he's amazing. He treats me like a princess, and he always has. Be strong!
Stay safe*.