I got my boyfriend of one year (but we've been talking way before that) a gift and gave it to him on xmas eve and he told me he wanted to do to xmas on new years..which I found as an excuse cuz he felt bad and didnt get me anything. I was obviously very upset and he turned it around on me saying he was trying to be romantic and had gotten me something so we could open it together. . Anyways he gave it to me and was this cheap costume jewlery that was obviously worn it was tarnished and had a hair in it and just completly hideous..probably got it from his mom and an old scarf... I know he's not in the best financial situation. . But its like you really couldn't have bought me something for 10$ .. we're both 26 yrs old... should i let this go because we have had arguments about other stuff but never in my mind would I think he would give me this.. I love him alot and I know he's broke.. but still.. should I let it go and start the new year with a blank slate with him??
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Tell him how you feel, if he's a cheapskate or someone who doesn't care enough to think of you on birthdays, Christmas etc., this probably just is the way he is. And it will get worse for you in the future if that's the way he is, so definitely talk to him about it and see if he changes.