My boyfriend of 11 months dumped me because he says that he doesn't love me as much and he needs how space however he still says he loves me. What should I do? I love him so much and we have been through so much together.. Do I give him time and ring him in a few days or move on completely? It hurts so much because I have to see him everyday at college and we had plans for my birthday, Christmas and New Years. Help please!
My boyfriend dumped me?
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- 3+ months ago by AugustaOv...
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- space, love, boyfriend, month
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i know its tough for you but right now dont call him again n again because dis might be kind of irritating for him may be dis will make him feel dat you dont want to give him space n all dat stuffs so right now just calm down he needs him space then give that if understands his feelings for you then he will definitely come back to u if not den just move on....
n always remember after every bad there is always a good time so just have patience give him his share of time to understand den lets c wat happeens....:)
best of luck
i know its tuf for u n i knw wat kind of feelings you are having right now its damn pain full i knw.... bt u nid to be strong n u hav to face dis....
we dont get wat we always expect.... n right now u will have to stop calling him again n again jus giv him space n allow him to call u n miss u....:)
hugs i knw its tuf....:(
I saw him at college today and we had a heart to heart and a catch up and I left it at that. Then this evening I rung him and asked to meet up and he said yes! I really hope it goes well and I have a chance of telling him how I feel (:
hmmm lets see wat happens n plz do let me know what happen n tok to him properly...:)
all d best dear
do let me know
We met up for coffee and chatted for 3 hours and I wrote him a letter to get out all of my thoughts and feelings and he read it and I said what I think we should do to make things better if we got back together and he said he loved and missed me but he doesn't want to be with me. As much as I would love to be with him, I have to respect his wishes and move on with my life.
i must say u r a strong gal because its nt easy to say dat i will have to move on...
n i know vry well what are you feeling now its damn painfull... it will take a lil time but u will b alright...
may be some one else is waiting for u n u will b happy again...:)
best of luck
Thank you so much and thank you for the kind words (:
its my pleasure...:)
Very true. 3 months!? That's a very long time to wait around. I'm giving him a weak to have his space and think about things. If he comes back then great and if not then I'll move on.
Myself and pooja both are in same situation. We can't do anything rather than calling to them, and they will not pick the call. We will only be worrying thinking about it. Just concentrate in some other things.
That's what I'm going to do, I'm going to give him space. We are meeting up tomorrow night to chat about things and if it works out then great and if not then I know it's not meant to be and I can move on.
Omg still U R in touch, then things are at our side. While chating chat with full confidence, no negative talks, no talking about past and bad past. Chat in a polite manner, no rough words, even if he makes U angry. Say I will wait, think problem and misunderstanding will be there everywhere. We only have to tackle it. That's life. If some misunderstanding is there between couples leaving them alone will not bring a solution in life. No one can take proper decision wen they are anger (or wat ever is appropriate for U guys say that), so don't conclude anything now, take ur own time think our colourful day and call me. I know surely U will call me. Like that U have to talk with confidence, U should show ur love, don't get emotionally upset. Chat with clear mind. All the best of luck. Say me the result tomorrow..
I just want to tell him how I feel and find out how I feel and tell him what I think we should do if we picked things up again and how we could make it work (: I really hope it works out but I'm not getting my hopes up.
I am not getting U clearly, can U explain again.
Any sweet news
We met up for coffee and chatted for 3 hours and I wrote him a letter to get out all of my thoughts and feelings and he read it and I said what I think we should do to make things better if we got back together and he said he loved and missed me but he doesn't want to be with me. As much as I would love to be with him, I have to respect his wishes and move on with my life.
Then nothing is wrong, don't talk anything regarding this matter if U have chance to meet him again. Don't show ur angry or feelings in any way to him. Complete ur studies. I can say only this, U have to implement it in ur life. Don't take too much time to recover. Resume soon.
Thank you so much and thank you for the kind words (:
I had a weakness and rung him 9 times today, I really wish I didn't :( I love and miss him so much and I understand he needs his space and that's what I'm going to give him. But how long should I wait for him?