I have been with my boyfriend for four years. We don't live together. When I free I do things , such as walking, create websites. Go out and eat something myself , and shopping. I work from 7 am to 5pm . I work in a senor position in a company. I finished my university at Uk and moved to Australia. Having so much hard time making friends. Apart from
People I work daily base I don't know anyone else in here. Most of my workmates ages from 40-65. Well, I try to invite my workmates out for coffee but they always have family responsibilities and I am 35 years old, nor married or have kids.
During work hours I call boyfriend few times . Just to say hi cos I don't have friends and have a big chat. And I can't call friends I have in uk all the time as well. I feel I annoy my boy friend call him. I love sports and I love tennis , swimming , cycling, watch afl and rugby.The problem
Is I don't have any friend to do any girly stuff. And my boy friend feel guilty him self cos if he spend time with his mate I should and have friends to do girly stuff. But I try to make friends but I could get any girl friends to do anything with me. Any how my boyfriend doesn't have to babysits all time making sure I been not neglected cos when he is busy with his mate I am doing something like reading , work on some websites or walking or shopping, cooking something yummy to eat. And seriously I don't get jealous cos he have friends and I don't have any. And also i don't have any problem doing guy stuff with his mate and also I encourage him as well to spend time with his friends more cos I know it's important, but sometime he feel so guilty cos I don't have that with girls. Lastly he be scold me not have any girl fiends but I don't know what I can do to find them. Some one of my age group. Lastly I got so sad and cry cos my boyfriend reminded me I don't have girlfriends to hang out. I have been in Australia since 2009 I have no friend what so ever. I don't know where to find some who have common interest and do things with me. One thing I don't do is I am not a drinker at all so I don't go to pub as much. Please help me finding some girl friend. This is my wish only wish before I die to find a friend in Australia Perth. Please help me.
My boyfriend complain I don't have friends apart from him?how can I make friends?
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Seems like you are in Introvert. Research what that is if you don't know. Just be yourself and people will be drawn to you. It is most important that you first realize who you are and what you like to do. Make a list of things you would like to do, without having to have someone do it with you. Then go out and do those things, you will find like minded people and voila! you will start your friend making journey.
Remember, it takes time to find genuine friends, most people just have acquaintenances and few have actual friends...so be You and friends will come to you. Forget about the boyfriend, I am consumed with mine and have decided to forget about him and remember who I am first. You can do it, don't be clingy find your own voice and you will be fine.
Well, Thank you for your answer. I have been myself.i know what I like to do ,such as sports and do creative things. I go to pool , I go to walk , I go to shopping , excerise, cook yummy food , beach all these things I do myself, involved in community activity.I doesn't need anyone to do it with me.i am not shy and I don't say home. When I am around people they all say hi and talk to me. But I just don't have people I called as best mates in Australia to hang out.
I wish , it was just easyer enough for me, I just feel and wish people are friendly more in Perth just to welcome people new to the country.
I have not change myself for anyone. I am try to be myself and try to be out their to make some girls friends where I can hang out. Wish I can find some good friends