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Well from my understanding it means that you are all ways on his mind and in his thoughts. Mind you, you guys have only been together only a month. Had he been seeking you for a while before you guys became boy friend and girl friend.
Yes, I believe so. We have know each other in a work environment for quite a long time but I never looked at him as someone I would date. I am very glad I am now!
That's good I'm happy for you, we never know when or where we will find love and happiness. You guys still work together ?
Yup we still work together but in different areas - which is good.
Helen I know it's early in this relationship but how far would you like it to go ? Do you see it as a long term one ?
He is a good man / treats me well. I can happily see myself with him for the long. Term.
He is a good man / treats me well. I can happily see myself with him for the long. Term.
I hope it works out for you guys, what was the longest term you've had before ?
12 yrs on and off. It was long distance and it should have never been in the first place. This different and something very positive!!
Wow twelve years that shows comittment, how were you able to pull that off, It must have been very nerve racking to try and hold on to a relationship that long over time and distance. Why do you say you should have never been in it, I know you must have love him very much.
Well because down deep I knew he would / could never settle down but....you know he knew how to pull at my heart strings. He traveled all over the world and was gone most of the year. In the long run it worked for him but not for me. It took me a while to be able to move on but now I am happy.
Helen, would like to be a mom some day if you aren't all ready, seems to me you posses what it takes to be a very good one.
Awww thanks much that is a sweet compliment....but I am way past that stage in life.
If you were bless to raised children how many would you have wanted to have, are you from a large family ?
I am from a very small family..non-existent really. Always wanted a sibling but my parents always told me I was a handful already :0). As for me I never had that proverbial time clock as most women do. I would have liked kids but I am still of the school that both parents are needed to raise a child - single parent hood is just to hard. What about yourself?
We were watching TV and he just leaned over and told me me he was "smitten with me" - he did not specify love. This is a new relationship, one moth old, and I was not too sure how to categorize smitten.