... it out on me. She says that she can't ever be around me or my mom again without being miserable and thinking about him. She's 18 and my brother is 17, he just took her out a couple of times, its not like they have been together for month's or anything.I'm not sure what to do,why am i being hurt by something I had nothing to do with.I've never ley her down an !even took her side over my brother and she still seems to want to throw our friendship away.I'm so hurt and don't know how I should handle this.Any advice would be appreciated