Ok so every time I get in a relationship w/ someone, there's always something wrong w/ it according to my bff! For example: the last relationship that I was in, I was "thinking too much about him or I talked about him too much ect... And now I'm in a new relationship w/ a guy who I really like but my bff seems to think that I always leav her out when we are all together, but when she is looking left out I invite her over to hang w/ us but she doesn't join! And now she is mad @ me cuz he jokes around in a mean way but I do nothing about it (she is rude 2 him 2) what should I do??? Plzzzzz help! Thx
My best friend never let's me have a happy relation ship??
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- 3+ months ago by Malikgirl
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I can understand where you're coming from - She seems to be restrictive of you, she's envious that your attention is divided between her and the new person in your life. But remeber that she is your best friend, therefore I'll assume that you guys have a very good bond - which she's in no hurry to lose. Don't get angry with her, but she needs to understand that while you need some space to explore other aspects of life, but she also needs to understand that your friendship isn't gonna change that much (I'm not gonna sugarcoat it, it will change to some extent as you guys get older and you become intrested in other things). Hope this helps ^^
I think your bff feels scared,scared in a way of loosing you to your boyfriend she gets insecure of the thought that you will have a bf and she will be left alone.I know that it sound a little bit selfish but she is just i think getting scared of that. Maybe the best way is for you to talk to her assured her that whatever happens you will always be there for her as her bff and nothing can change even if you will have a bf also tell her that you two will still go out exclusively for the two of you just like you used to do.In regards with your boyfriend try to make them civil at first to each other then ask your bf if he can try to be friend with your bff so in that way they will not feel awkward with each other when they both around and with you.If not too much try to match make her with other guys so she can really understand that is if she will agree with the idea.
your friend wants your attention and she isn't taking the chance you give her to be involved if your boyfriend is mean I think he shouldn't be doing that that makes a person feel bad and not so sure about them selves your friend has insecurity issues she can't expect much more so I think you may want to figure out whats important not play your friends game and also not allow your boy friend to be me to others cause that's the way he is
They seem really protective of you. They still live you to death but still... they shouldn't get into your love life. It's your life. No one makes your decisions. If you want to have a boyfriend... Have one! They shouldn't try to take over you. I hope I helped you a little :)