So my 18th Bday is 2-17 b/c it falls in the middle of the week my family has been planning to celebrate on Saturday of this weekend. . But even though I haven't asked for.anything they still keep saying they are making plans.. but in the same sentence my sister has made it clear she has another celebration to attend and family has brought up we don't have money for it... I'm upset at this. But its also my bday? Should I let the comments go or should I not accept the plans and don't celebrated.