Hey
I'm going to a music festival in 2 days time with 3 friends & we're all organised apart from 1 friend. He has only saved £30 to last him 5 days and he has only just managed to borrow a tent from someone - he isn't prepared & no-one can lend him cash - I'm only bringing what I need - I don't want to carry extra for him & pay for him and leave myself short on money cause he didn't even try to save. I've tried talking to him about this and he doesn't want to talk about it and says it'll all work out because "it always does" but he doesn't realise no one is going to bail him out this time.
I want to have a good time at this festival but I feel like i'll just be getting moaned at/Guilt tripped into paying for everything. He isn't my responsibility - My bags will be heavy enough with just what I need to bring - What do I say to him? What do I do? I can't just say "you're not going"