my husband's step mom was always nice to me and since my hubby cut ties with his real mother she wants nothing to do with us his step mom. she has always been there for us his step mom and consider her a real mom. i sent her a personalized gift for mothers day and she said thank you in a text, i havent heard from her since. i called today to talk and she thought of a reason not to talk to me to have to go quick. she could have said thank you for the shirt or at least something and she didnt.