It happened 2 days ago and I still couldn't recover from the shock. My elder sister was getting married and there was a celebration in a club for that reason. All rooms in our house packed up with guests in our house so people had to dress themselves at some other place. I and my 2 little cousins and my 2 friends went to aunts house for changing. Since there was not enough place all can't get together. So I was myself outside and guarding the door. Since it was already late I had to hurry and so I pushed the main door with my hands and was changing outside in hall room. I was so sure that there could be no one there since I thought no one can even think of going to aunts house at that point of time . As soon as dropped my clothes. the grooms(sister's husband's) own brother pushed the main door. I was busy in changing and so I couldn't stop him from opening ...and he saw me in that state. He kind of stared at me for nearly 2.5 seconds and then said " Sorry " and closed the door back . I was so embarrassed that I was in tears and somehow managed to escape.
Needless to say I couldn't enjoy the entire marriage party and is still shocked.
My sisters husband's brother read in same year in college with me. He came as a guest to our house. We have respect for each other but nothing more than that. I cannot get the matter over and is still shocked. Last day when I met him in college I can feel that his way of giving me respect has changed. He was trying to speak to me regarding studies but I cannot give a single response and am trying to avoid any eye contact with him. He started smiling after I didn't reply. I feel I lost my self respect even though its an accident.
i don't know what's wrong with me ...but I am very much annoyed with him even if it was an accident. I got more annoyed when he tried to talk to me the other day in college and when I didn't replied he was smiling.
I cannot concentrate on my studies Because every time I remember the scene and his way of staring I feel very bad. My internal exams are approaching and I still couldn't get over the shock. I need some helpful information in this regard
Most embarassing incident?
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- 3+ months ago by anonymous...
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- club, sister, celebration, shock
Answers (2)
I understand it's embarrassing but the only thing you can do is deal with it the way you deal with it (i.e. you can't change the way he is choosing to deal with it, which seems a bit unpleasant). You can't undo the past so I'd be tempted to just try and forget that it happened. I had something similar happen to me, except it wasn't just one person, it was about thirty of the girls I was at school with. The only way to handle it was to laugh it off every time one of them mentioned it.
also other questions pondering me that what he was doing there when others were busy at the marriage party. i knew him from long time since he is my sister's boyfriend's own brother. I had a different image about him . But now i find i was wrong . Also he shouldnt smile when someone is feeling uneasy. I am bit confused
Yes, I agree with you. It's wrong of him to smile the way he is doing. That's the bit that stood out to me when I answered the question. It's not very pleasant. I'm wondering whether he's smiling because he feels like he has something personal of yours (i.e. what you look like without all your clothes on).
It's awful that people would make fun of something that isn't your fault. If you spoke to him and asked him not to tell anyone, do you think he would do that for you? After all, he should want to make this awkward situation right and to help you out.
If it does get out, the only thing you can do is put up with it, sadly. There'll be something else that people gossip about soon enough and the attention won't be on you for long.
thanks ..i hope it works :)
thanks for answer it encouraged me.
But the problem is he is giving a strange smile after seeing me which is making me uneasy. Here in India people do need a subject of gossip. I am afraid if he tells what happened to my class mates ...they may make fun of me(especially men). Neither can i talk to him about it...nor can i ignore it. I will be helpful if u can suggest me a little more.thanks again