Hi I'm Danielle but most people call me dani and I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend that I have been with since I was 15 and it was my 20th birthday when We had sex he is 21 and has had it 2 other times before and it was before he met me (which I think was way to young) and he waited 5 years for me to be ready and I love him so much. 2 days ago I found out I'm pregnant and I still havent told him but that's not why I need advice. I need advice because I am freaking out I am trying to think of other things like baby names and stuff but I just keep thinking about how there is a living person inside of me now and what If I do something that hurts the baby on accident or what if after the baby is born I am a bad mom I am so scared and I know that stress is not good for the baby but I don't know what to do please give me some advice I'm freaking out
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Well if you are nervous about your pregnancy health most areas have a pregnancy care center that could be very useful to you they usually give very good advice and care for mommies to be. Also you could consider getting some books on parenting or asking advice from women who have been in your situation or just moms and grandmas in general. Most would love to help you, and give ya some helpful advice. and you should probably visit a hospital or get checked out to see how your pregnancy is going to make sure the baby is healthy. as for your boyfriend id recomend telling him as soon as possible if he loves you im sure hell be excited with you and maybe help you through it take away some of the stress. hope all goes well XP
