Mom hates dad's family she never lets me see them my dad agrees so he don't get fussed?

This remids me of when I was growing up.but growing up my mom and my grandma on my dads side did not get along so I only saw my dads side of the familly maybe 2 or 3 times a year as I got older I wanted to spend more time wit them so I emailed my cousins and called my grandma as. I got older I went to vist them more. So you could try that