I'm going into middle school and my brother goes there he warned me about this middle school. Well let me just tell you what happened. A while ago he started to call me an alien an it agervates me and he said not to come near his friends or him because he told his friends I was an alien. I'm worried that the alien joke will be passed around the school. Also he said if I tell on anybody too much I will be given a nickname like snitch. I don't want that but if I need to tell on somebody I will like if I'm being bullied. That's another problem, bullying. At this middle school there is a alot of bullying. I'm afraid I might be bullied if its either because how I dress or my ADHD or any reason there is to be bullied for. And also I don't know if I will have any friends I know about 2 or 3 people that are going there one person is from my elementary school. But they are most likely going to be in the gifted program. I will be in the normal program because I could barely even handle 5th grade. I'm not sure if I'm ready for middle school yet please help
Middle school...I don't want to be bullied please help?
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- 3+ months ago by Bbygrl0213
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- school, middle, schools, middle school
Answers (5)
Hey man, I completly get what your going through and I hope I can help. I had the exact same problem, except where I live they are much much harsher than that. But that doesnt change the fact that what your going through isnt difficult, when I was your age I had ADD, I was dyslexic, 4 foot 10, 75 pounds, pimples all over me, and i was a joke. And this wasent even the begging of middle school, this was the end of 8th grade. I was constantly bullied and beat up, I had very little friends and had a very bad home life. I thought nobody could help me, and didnt want to look weak looking for help. By the time high school came around I was 6`2, 156 pounds, had friends, good at sports, smart. And realized all i had to do then and now was just be true to what i wanted and wanted to achive more. Whether that was playing along with the bullies or outsmarting them, or whether it was practicing as hard as I could to get on the team, thats what i did. But there are some things you cant change, honestly stick up for yourself and others; because one day when you cant stick up for yourself someone else will. Its all apart of growing up, just dont try to be something your not, and laugh off the stuff you know is not true. Hope I helped
And btw I'm a girl
If you get bullied verbally, take everything as a compliment. That will surely bother the bullies. If it escalates to physical bullying, however, you need to tell someone who works at the school. Just know that you'll always have friends to help you get through anyhing bad that happens, and that you can trust them ^^
The best thing I can tell you is to be nice to people but not fake. Everyone is nervous for middle school and everyone will be around people they don't know. Even if people are rude too you, try to stay nice too them (but not if its real serious bullying, then you should tell an adult). Try to join at least one club or sport, that way you can meet people with similar interests. Mostly, just be yourself. Not everyone is going to l like you, but many will.
I hope this helps.
I can't belive people treated you that way and I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was born actually. I just don't want middle school to be like my old elementary school or worse. Thank you for the help. ~Kimmy