... it completely and am still in love with him. I just found out he slept with my sister a few nights ago. She just recently (a week go) separated from her husband (7 year relationship) and thinks she's in love with my ex. I'm completely crushed and don't know what to do. She said part of her hates herself because its wrong but part of her wants to see if they have a shot. I tried bringing up the Aunt step mom thing, as well as the fact that we are sisters, but I don't know what to do. They both have depression issues, alcohol issues, and emotional issues. Am I wrong to be upset and completely crushed? Help?!!?
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Dear babygirl80, hello my name is Dr. Steve Mahannahan.
Your crisis is heartbreaking to read, and you seem very strong to be able to go through this.
But obviously, you were wrong. Marriage isn't about happiness, it's about the Q'ook'matahk. The central vibratory emission that emenates through your gl'uym'i.
Before you can fix your marriage, first you have to face your mirror. There is M'g'ahgtk circling all around you, don not fight it, embrace it, and the monkeys will come naturally.-Dr. Steve
First off, NO you are not wrong to feel the way you do. You were very betrayed by two people that were extremely close to you. As others have said, focus on your kids and yourself, talk to someone to sort this all out but try to stay strong and take it day by day.
As for those two, they are both very selfish individuals and you should create some distance from them as best you can until you feel comfortable in interacting with them. Don't make excuses for them or try to understand, don't let them give you sob stories of why they did what they did, just take care of you and your kids. They both knew exactly what they were doing and the impact it would have and did it anyway. So, as best you can, cut some ties with them for a while and exclude them from your world.
It will be emotionally difficult for a while but you can make it through, seek a sholder for strength and hug your kids when sad. Take care of yourself and good luck!