... tongue off the ball well things got out of hand and we ended up twirling our tongues around without touching each others lips after we realized what we were doing,we stopped . After that it was like night and we were still confused shaking with knots and butterflies in our stomach and our tongues felt weird we couldn't figure out why we were confused like this we also did it again , but this time with lip contact and we were thinking about the feelings and mixed emotions this time but we ended up more confused . My parents are homophobic and her parents aren't but aren't the best people to tell this to. We are so confused can you give us some answers please?