Making pre-arranged threesome look spontaneous?

Question

about 3 weeks ago during love making my wife asked me to find another guy to join us for a threesome, big fantasy thing for her, in the cold light of day we have not mentioned it since

so i took the initiative and placed an ad on craigslist and found a guy - not hard to do

my wife and I both have friday off and the house will be empty of kids etc, he is coming to our house on friday am, posing as an estate agent (we are in the middle of trying to rent out our house),

so the scenario is set, i know this is something she wants to do, she has specifically asked me to set this up, but is not aware that I have acted on that request, the guy is nice looking, about 10 years younger than us (we're 40), he is happy to play along with any scenario we want to construct,

trouble is now I have no idea how to start this, who should do /say what to whom to make the thing kick off, after it starts I think we'll all be on pretty safe ground, its just the initiation

this is 100% genuine request, any ideas

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My question is :  have you really thought this through.   You might be opening Pandora's box and once open YOU CANNOT close it back up.

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I know that people engage in such sexual experiences and to each their own, no one can judge anothers sexual  preferences but this could be dangerous, Physically and Medically.

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Hmmmm...I think you should tell him to come onto her....and when she gets uncomfortable, just play along with the whole scenario like its ok, BUT. On the other hand, you don't know if this guy has any STD's...some which can be transferred by saliva...such as hep --- or whatever else. Plus are you trying to be gay with this guy? --- because your wife may not have had that in the plan. I dunno, me being a woman...I wouldn't ever want 2 dudes at the same time. Maybe if I wasn't in love with them, but all the same. I wouldn't wanna see them fucking and making out. --- But everyone is different. I dunno about craigslist though, sometimes when you invite strangers into your house...they play a role (which he is doing) and will be very deceptive, and sometimes even abusive, or they might have a different plan...than what you are expecting. What if your wife likes him...because she doesn't know you set this up...and he takes a liking of her. Hasn't been the first time. In fact, it probably happens more than not.

Making pre-arranged threesome look spontaneous?

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