My Mom's best friend has a daughter. We were 'best friends/sisters' while we we're up. She always had the better of materialistic things, activities, and "the 1st" to do aything...which seemed like I was "copying her" when I ended up getting/doing the same things she did. (I am not sure if this was a jealousy thing, confidence issue, or socio-economic issue.) We did end up going to different schools, colleges, and now live in different states. We keep in touch often and still see each other around the holidays. With that being said we each have our own lives, guys, and family/friends. She actually has a better relationship with my Mom than I do. It is unfortunate that I do not have the same relationship that she has with her mom and my mom - that is another story/question for another time. Recently, she got engaged and asked me to be the Maid of Honor along side her brother's wife as the Matron of Honor (she claims this is a southern thing - I am thinking she didn't want to hurt my feelings by having two people next to her). I am uncomfortable by the fact that she is closer to her Matron of honor and will passive aggressively flaunt their relationship. I am contemplating whether or not to step down as the Maid of Honor and just being a bridesmaid. I feel as though this was also a request due to our Mother's relationship. I am at a loss of words as to what to do
