So I was in a relationship and turns out this boy had a girlfriend of 4 years and theyy have a baby on the way. So I was on the phone with them both and he just denied me to her and called me all kinds of names. I was hurt and kept thinking what am I doing wrong annd why wont any of my relationships work? Well Why do guys lie and cheat?
Love - Why do guys lie and cheat? What is the point?
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- 3+ months ago by Dannirene...
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- boy, love, lie, guys, relationship, boys
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You have done noting wrong at all..even you have chosen your partner with your will and beliefs..then definitely you had a faith on your partner..but it's your partner who has cheated you.the guy is the culprit who has thrown you into the pain and suffering...so never think that "you have made the wrong choice"..think that "your choice has betrayed with you"..though both yields the same thing..but if you think in the 2nd way then you can get rid of all sorts of complexities/frustration/pain roaming around your mind..it's a bit of bad luck that none of your relationship had worked well...
But never ever think that "Why do guys lie and cheat?"..don't generalized it with all guys..there are bad as well as bad guys..unfortunately you dealt with all the wrong ones..but it does not mean "Guys always cheat you.."..i am completely against it...
Even last year my friend was completely cheated by his girlfriend after 2years of INTENSE relationship...I observed his sufferings..he was almost in the edge of suicide..but me and my friends tried to soothe him..he also told me "Why Girls cheat behind boys..??"...I had no answer then...I just told "don't generalize it..!!There is someone more devoted for you is waiting for you in the near future.."
Likewise I can tell never nurture any negative belief about guys in your mind..this will make your search for "Right Partner" disastrous/evil.. "In an exam not everybody passes..there are somebody who fail also.."...You have failed this time..but it does not mean you will fail in next one..."Truly speaking" getting a right partner in your life is a difficult one where values of relationships has become very lightweight-ed..You can definitely find girls and boys around you who tells like "I have 10 boyfriends/girlfriends"..it means that nobody is satiated with one relationship...so be POSITIVE..you will get your MAN soon..
There are a very few guys who are not cheating and who are faithfull because of that fewer we cant generalize. But I complitely understand you dear. Yes they lie, they cheat sometimes( with eyes or heart, it doesnt have to be cheating cheating),they all looking and flearting with other girls. I will tell you one thing "men are all same" and it has a reason. they have a big pasion,desire,last whatever they call it but they are thinking trough these things. Man are falling in love with what they see and wimen with what they hear,isnt that saying something? As long as you dont understand diferences between men and women your relationship will always be failed. I did a lot of research about topics like these and I will tell you that you have to be very strong and never let anybody walk in your heart just like that. First spend a lot of time with that person and see what kind of person is he. If you have even the smalest suspicion that he could cheat you and you like him make him jeliouse or show him that you are not that much interested,their ego get hurt fastly and probably he will change something. And never ever ever show him your veakness,be strong women and smart(they are afraid of smart women),think 7 times before you say something to him,aspecialy "I love you" But what happened to you is just part of your life that happened to everybody,but in diferent ways,but people are losing belowed person all the time,with death or cheating,you get me? try to go on,banish everything that reminds you on him and that terible situation,with God help you will find someone suitable to you. I wish you all luck of this world...
dear friend, first of all it's not your fault...you've been used...try to learn from past mistakes...i don't know your age...but the very best thing for anyone to find a partner who will truly love us and understand us is to pray to God...i know that you might get a little shocked, but, it's true... God will give you a lifetime partner, not just for short time but for a life time...seek Him first...let God choose for you...God Bless..!
some men see women all the same also those type of people usaully get bored of women and they use women as sex machines. your relationships don't work because of the men you like, hot n' sexy thats not what any girls need. you need a gentlemen who is polite and is good at math.
i don't agree with as you said ----I will tell you one thing "men are all same" ...there are good as well as bad mates..you have to keep your time to judge the person who try to enter your heart..i have also seen so many girls cheating behind their boyfriends..but never generalized all the girls with my hatred to those nasty chicks..