... on. We have both dated other people since we first hooked up and we didn't talk for a little less than a year. For the passed 3 months he has been livin with me and my brother and his best friend. I'm ready to take the next step and be boy friend girl friend but he says he dnt want to have a girl friend. We sleep together ever night and we share a room he says he is not sleepin with anyone else. What should I do?
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Well. What do u think he does want? Do u want to be with him in a relationship? Do u know why he doesnt want one? I think it seems like he doesnt want a relationship, but he wants to sleep with you. U should ask him how he feels about all of this and make sure u share ur feelings with him. I know it makes u wonder though... LOL, I'm 26 and female, i know what ur sayin... Hope it turns out good for you. Just be honest tell him how u feel, and if u still are willing to sleep with him and trust that he isnt sleeping with another girl then keep doing what u r doing.
Well most guys as we know onlny want pussy. im a guy myself but i cant addmit that that is what most guys want. but in the sittuation you are in i would sayyou should just end it. Why if he is sleeping with you and in the same bed as you, why cant he date you. It's bull, hes just playing you. He duz not want to be in a relationship just incase he duz meet a different girl. then heh cant flirt and everything and trully when he duz you wont have no say cuz he didnt wanna be in a realation ship.. so yea i say tell him lets take the next step or i will have to find someone else that is willing to take that step with me. but in a nicer way
By continuing to sleep with him your telling him the arrangement is OK so on his part no need for anything to change because he's quite happy with how it is. So maybe you should stop sleeping with him for a while as your the unhappy one, this will either make him commit or look else where but either way you will have your answer. Harsh advice I know but if your stuck in this relationship, you keep yourself from meeting someone who is prepared to have a committed relationship with you.
Get all the cards on the table, talk it out,let your feeling be known that way there no misunderstanding, either you're together or not! That way u will be able to move on with your lives.