I started dating the boy I've had a crush on for two years, because of his weirdness, last month. But theres a girl that he use to be like bffs with, and she confessed to him, but it was before i started dating him, but they still have that friend thing going on, but if you saw her you could just tell she still likes him. Now they have poking wars and they text a lot and talk and everything, and when i see them i get all depressed or i tell my friend i think they're flirting or i say i just dont like her, they look at me like im fricken crazy. Is it really wrong for me to be mad when they're always together?!!??!!?
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They can be just friends and hang out, but you have to be able to trust your bf. When they have poking wars its not that bad unless there doing it in inappropriate places. If I were you I would try my best not to be jealous. Try to have a nice talk with him and ask him if he will stop poking and hanging out a whole lot with her. Tell him he still can, just not more then you. But even if it doesn't work. Just trust. if anything happens to where he cheats on you, its not your fault, he's the one with the problem and if your dating a cheater you have nothing to lose
i was kind of going thru the same but my boyfriend who is now my husband im 20 and hes now 20..he was 18 when this happend ...he was bffs with this girl n she would flirt text n stuff i didnt like he will tell me wht she say.then she started telling him to have sex with her that she loved him..he told me and i was not ok with it so he stoped his friend ship...you need to talk to your bf that it is making you uncomftrable and if he loves you more than anything he will finish thee friendship.