She sings a lot in public and gets on other people's nerves, she's off key. I'm afraid to tell her because I might hurt her feelings. Should I be honest or not?
Love - I'm dating a woman who thinks she's a good singer but isn't. Should I tell her?
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- 3+ months ago by Billy Bar...
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Absolutely don’t tell her. Let someone else tell her and you be there to support her when she is upset – then it becomes a win-win situation. Don’t ruin a beautiful thing by being totally honest. Keep quiet in the meantime. It’s a “does my bum look big in this” type of thing - you can’t win this one if you say something.
I think you're right, it's worth hearing her sing anyway.
If you really love her you should be able to gently tell her that her singing is a little off and maybe pay for her to go for singing lessons. If she found out through someone else that her singing is bad she might get really upset with you that you just let her embarrass herself. But be nice and gentle please. Good luck.
Right secretly tape her singing.
At the right moment asked her opinion of this persons singing and see what she says.
If her response is negative tell her it's her
If it's posative or she recognised it was her nicely explain it's not to every ones taste and compare your music tastep with hers as an example e.g I like ed sheeran and you don't you like Justin beiber I don't etc
I was tempted not to tell her cause she's gorgeous. Guess I'll have to though.