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...  rather ignore him or show to everyone I hate him because he always piss me off. He used to tease me but not to make me laugh.

I have kids and I have a husband who cheats on me and come home whenever he want to, but I am not making those as excuses to avenge myself and besides I wasn't planning about it. I think, I just need a distraction to forget the pain.I don't know.

I don't know if I am just paranoid because I like him, I really really like him but sometimes I caught him looking at me (not smiling) but these past few days whenever I caught him looking at me, there's something different into his eyes (I don't know the exact words for it). But among the boys in my office he is the least person I talk to, well, he does the same thing to me. It feels really awkward to be with him around, maybe because I was thinking that he likes me to (damn it). To be honest, I hate him and I hate him like how I like him. Isn't it weird?

Please help me, I don't know what to do, I don't know what to think.

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well your husband doesn't respect you at all i wonder when you got married if he thought it was just a relationship thing were you have kids you have a wife and you have a mistress sounds like it  mabe he thinks he can have a harem i don't know but unless your happy about this kinda thing i would get out put your foot down and go thats my take you might wanna see where this thing goes with the guy your talking about if you hate him not such a good idea you might want to heal first

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You should get away from your husband-he doesn't show you respect. However I'm not sure about your co-worker. I think he might like you, but he doesn't want to show it. Try talking to him more, or ask his friends if they know.

Love - I have a co-worker who I really find attractive but instead of showing my interest to him, I?

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