... about to be a junior in high school and this is the most complicated situation I've ever been in in my life. Well I met this guy in the eight and I began to have feelings for him I don't know if he did but he showed signs that he did .red when I'm around ALWAYS made eye contact longer than a minute one day we literally in the hallway and just stared at each other for 5 minutes straight. a friend of his even asked if I liked him once and I just replied he's cool because I was in front all of them and felt like I was in the spotlight . I was friends with his friends but we are no longer. but we never went out we talked talked but rumors began and it got awkward.summer I went into with lots of confusion .came freshman year rumors still said that I liked him so when he was asked by others he would reply hell no. But then later in freshman year his friend turned around and yelled to me "hey he likes you" with him there red.he never came up and asked me and I was waiting so it confused me , but I was nervous to talk to him because of all the tension the rumors began obviously people's involvement made it hard. But even during freshman year he would always show up where I was and could never stop looking at me even was in my sports.Freshman year still ended with me being nervous to talk to him and didn't work out.Sophomore year we got the same class we talked some but their was still tension but he could never still take his eyes off me at the beginning and now it's the end of the year and summer till I become a junior, I don't know what to do because now it's like I don't know how he feels and wether or not he even still has feelings for me I'm getting mix signals and I think he thinks I'm sending him some because I act like I don't care but don't want to tell him him my feelings to be rejected.But all my friends think that he has feelings got for me but we still don't know. I would get over him but want the truth
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Ok I'm about to go into middle school an this may or may not be good advice
Now that you know he likes you he has been feeling very awkward around you and he doesn't want to talk to you because something awkward would happen like staring at each other again or even leaning in for a kiss. I've had these feelings for my crush and I didn't want to talk to him that is until after FCAT when we were moved to sit next to each other. Just wait for a little bit something good will happen he will talk to you soon I don't know how soon but soon hope I helped.
~kimmy
you might have gave up a good friend if not boyfriend you might settle for one or the other I think I hear some strong feelings there that might want to come out you don't have to say I love you say something along the lines of I like you this will open the door for a lot of possibilitys