I like this girl that I've known for a long time(about 15 years) we've been good friends and I'm starting to have feelings for her.little info about me im enlisted in the military I'm 18 she's 17 and I would like to tell her before I go on to basic training but idk how should I wait once I come back or tell her?
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First, does she has a boyfriend and what kind of conversation you have with her? If you just sometime says "hi" and random stuffs then the chances wouldn't be too great. However, if not and since you two are so-called childhood friend then there is a good chance that she will go out with you. And ask her before you go, you've already waited 15 years right?
If your feeling are fixed, then tell her before you go to basic training. I'm not trying to rush you or anything, but we don't know what will happen the next minute. Tell her now so you won't regret it the next minute, is now or never, after all, going to basic training with an ease heart is always better than letting unsaid words bury deep inside. If she was meant for you, whether now her answer is 'no' or 'yes' or even 'maybe', the future won't let you down.