... I am in a secret relationship to a guy who lives 5 states away. Its a secret because i know my family and friends would never approve of long distance. The only form of communication we use is texting. I really do care about him but it seems our relationship is going nowhere fast. And he has said he loves me over text but I know that if he truly loved me, he would show it through his actions not just words. We have never gone on a single date. He used to call at least 5 or 6 times a week but we only talked about once week due to one of us being busy. Now he never calls me and nor do i call him. I don't want to end our relationship but i am searching for a solution to this issue. Any advice helps, thanks :)
Long distance relationship help!?
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- 3+ months ago by blondieje...
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- guys, relationship, long distance, help
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I am in the same position as you, i live in PA and my gf lives in TN. I graduate this year. We've only been together for a short time but we have talked none stop for the past month or so..between skype text calling. But her dad doesnt approve along with her aunt. Her mom supports but she can only do so much cuz of other reasons. Now we call and stuff but she may be stayin with her aunt who doesnt approve and my gf has to hide the fact we date. Theres alot more to it but i think she could b the one. I dont want to end it either as does she. But she literally does anything and everythin to try and communicate with me My advice to u is that u should talk to him about this, if he doesnt try to fight for ur relationship he isnt worth it.
i understand you . when my boyfriend and i first started talking everything was like that . we never talked on the phone , and like your loved one never did the actions just the words . we've sadly never got to meet in person yet but oovoo and facetime ever chance we get . my advice is to not give up on him or your relationship . your relationship is just developing . give it some time . ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a month now and i can truly say im glad i waited and im happy . plan to see him sometime soon . tell your family - its the best thing to do .