Hi there,
I messed my life up big time! I was due to get married in oct but regretably one night last month I was very drunk and cheated on my Fiance, I was on the pill and this day was the first day of my non hormone pills so I was due to get my period, also he didnt use a condom. I got my period a day or 2 later and it was normal. My cycles are regular and around 28 days.
My Fiance and I had broken up straight away which I dont blame him, I stopped taking my pill as I didnt see the point because Im not with him anymore and sex was the last thing on my mind!
10days later(also 10th day since first day of my period/cycle) My ex asks me to come out to sort who is taking what from our home, we ended up just crying to each other and telling each other how much we miss and love each other. We ended up making love and he didnt wear a condom and I was no longer on the pill. The last month I have been an emotional wreck I hadnt even thought that night about getting ECP the next day and by the time I had thought about it, it was not in the time frame. Plus I hadnt eaten or slept for 2 weeks so thought my body wouldnt be working properly and conceive! But I havent been feeling that great lately and am due to get my period tomorrow so i took and early test and it was positive.
I am going to the dr next week to confirm if I still havent got my period and also get an STI check, but I just need you to give me your opinion of who the father is. Im sure its my ex but I guess theres always a chance. I would rather have a child to the man I have loved for 12 years rather than someone I cant even remember what they look like!