... watched my mom destroy my dads life. My mom has a horrible spending issue. He has multiple times tried to talk to her about it but he Doesn't want to hurt her feelings so he sorta doesn't get to the point. My mom is unemployed and doesn't cook or clean. My dad does all of it. I know he's scared of her. He drinks to help ease his stress. He only does it late at night and he tries to hide that he's drinking. It hurts me to see him like this. I'm moving out next year to college and I'm worried for him it'll just me him and her and honestly I'm the only thing stable he can look forward to. I'm not sure what to do. She's always but herself first. Me and my sister were homeschooled in the 2nd grade and this is when she started acting like this she didn't teach us for 7 years I tried my best but I was pretty young so we were socially held back as well as educationally. We went to high school and I've poured so much into catching up and I'm academically and socially okay now but that's just an example on being selfish. She watched me and my sister be struggling in math and stuff and didn't care she watches my dad stress and doesn't care she sleep until 1 and only cares about making crafts and things for other people and acting like the best mom only infront of other people. I'm thinking maybe I should say saying because I'm leaving next year anyway it causes me a lot of stress watching such an amazing man like my dad not happy