... most part, we're fine. When we're apart he turns paranoid and is spiteful because of it, accusing me of lying about what I'm doing and saying I don't make enough effort. When we began our first year in 2011, I did fine whilst he had a mental breakdown and self harmed. I saw him through it, and in the spring term (2012) he came to live with me in my student halls, which put strain on our relationship, as I resented him hanging around getting drunk (he's a spiteful aggressive drunk) whilst I tried to work. He's restarted uni himself this year and is doing better, although he did skip a lot of days last term, and said he'd do better this term. He wanted to come and see me at my uni on Sunday and stay till Tuesday, missing Mondays lectures, but I said no because I didn't want him to start off badly and miss lectures again. He's barely spoken to me for three days, insisting there's another reason I don't want him to come. I'm trying to understand how he feels but it's difficult when he doesn't listen to reason. I don't know what to do, because when we're together, we're mostly perfect. We barely fight and he treats me like a princess. We have adventures together like going to the zoo or for lunch. Sorry for the long-winded question, but I really need help.
