We've been hanging out and talking every day for a few weeks. I brought it up before, and he said he didn't want to ask at that moment, but his goal is for me to be his girlfriend. He's had many opportunities to ask or bring it up, but he hasn't and it makes me wonder if he's just dragging me along and doesn't ever want to be official? And just said that to make me happy? Or if he actually wants to, but is waiting a while.
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Well since you two have been talking for a few weeks now he definitely likes you, and from what I can tell you like him to. However that being said , he is probably waiting for the right moment to ask you, and you probably caught him off guard by bringing it up yourself.
Now since he says he plans on asking you, I think you should just wait and see what happens. After all, you can't rush these things just see where it goes! But whatever you do,do not pressure him. As that may scare him off or even worse it may make him feel like you are desperate. Good Luck Girl !
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depending on how old you all are,there may be a higher force that is keeping him from making it official, such as his parents may not allow him to date right now. Hence why he said his goal is to go out with you. A good rule to follow would be the 2 month rule : which is if he has not made it official within two months of your first real date, you should probably re-assess things.
anyway hope this helps :)